One in four people cheat
Sometimes the temptation is too strong, and someone decides to have an affair with someone else. It is estimated that 1 in 4 men and women cheat sometimes. There are no exact numbers because cheating is not something that people easily talk about. And, when exactly is something cheating? Is a sexual message with a photo enough? Or is it cheating when someone shares a bed with someone else? Regardless of your definition: cheating is wrong and happens more often than you think. You can check for these 5 clear signs of cheating if you are unsure.
To tell or to keep it a secret?
You are facing a dilemma. By accident, you have found out that a good friend, acquaintance, or colleague is cheating or is being cheated on. What do you do with this information?
Honesty should always come first. The foundations for a good, stable, and long-term relationship are honesty and integrity. These values have not been taken seriously if someone cheats. You can keep this sensitive information to yourself, but you can also inform the partner. This can also be done anonymously.
Report cheating anonymously
Report cheating in a safe and anonymous way through this website with an anonymous text message. The only thing you need is the mobile phone number of the person who is being cheated on. You can tell this person in your own words about the unfortunate situation.
The message you write will be delivered on behalf of an anonymous sender. We will keep your details strictly confidential to the recipient. Your (personal) details will never be shared with others or used for commercial purposes.
What you need to know before exposing a cheater
If a close friend of yours is being cheated on, it is your duty to report it to him or her. Your friendship puts you in a position, where you would be a "covert accomplice" if you didn't speak up.
Make sure to prepare for the reaction, as people will often be in denial or be angry at you for confronting them with the truth. Show them compassion, even if they react harshly. After all, you are friends.
Understand the circumstances of the cheating before telling a stranger about his or her partner cheating. Otherwise, you may not be able to identify the risk to either you or the person being exposed. If the partner of the person having an affair engages in domestic violence, you could be setting both of you up to be in danger. The worse you know the people involved, the more careful you have to be. Your goal is to do more good than harm.
It is more appropriate to tell friends than strangers. Especially since you likely don't know the stranger's circumstances. Consider your relationship with the people involved and act accordingly. Do what you feel is right in the end, but be careful.
Examples how to expose a cheater anonymously
Exposing a cheater anonymously via text is easy with our service. Include information that allows the faithful partner to validate that his partner is cheating. A name or description of the person the was cheated on with is a good start. If you know more, include it as well. An example of what to additionally include would be: Your husband is cheating on you. Look at the messages under Olivia.
Use the following text message as a foundation on how to expose a cheater. Make sure to include more details.
This is an anonymous message. Your partner is cheating on you with XXX.
The message will be delivered on behalf of an anonymous sender. Your details are not known to the recipient. Your (personal) details will never be shared with others or used for commercial purposes.
Your identity remains secret
Nobody can trace your text message unless you decide to reveal your identity in the message itself. We treat your data with confidentiality. We will not share your information with anybody. After a short time, our system automatically deletes all messages and their corresponding data. Your privacy is guaranteed.
Each text message you send carries a one-time fee of $2.49. With just a few clicks, you can pay safely via Apple Pay, Google Pay, PayPal, or Credit card. The service is therefore not free, but in return the delivery of your message is guaranteed. After every sent message you will receive a confirmation of delivery with the exact time of delivery.
Now you know how it works. Give it a try, or check out our other article to find out exactly how anonymous text messaging works.
FAQ about reporting cheating
How do you anonymously tell someone that they are being cheated?
First of all, before you act, it is important that you are 100% sure that there is infidelity. Reporting cheating is a risk if you don't have proof or concrete information. But if you're sure, you're doing a good deed by making sure the truth comes out on the table.
There are several ways to report cheating anonymously to the cheater, each with advantages and disadvantages.
Email: create a new abstract email address and send them an email.
- Advantage: you have a lot of space to tell your story.
- Disadvantage: you have to pay close attention to your writing style, so that it is not recognized by the reader. There is also a risk that the recipient will overlook your mail or that it will end up in de spam box.
Telephone call: you can anonymously call the person being cheated.
- Advantage: you can interact with that person and start a conversation about what you know.
- Disadvantage: the person to whom you report the cheating can recognize your voice, so that you are no longer anonymous.
Text message: send an anonymous text message.
- Advantage: you remain 100% anonymous, plus your privacy and delivery of the message are guaranteed. You can also arrange this with a few pushes of a button.
- Disadvantage: your message should be short and sweet.
Social media: create a 'fake account' on Facebook, Twitter or Instagram.
- Advantage: it is an accessible way to get in touch, as many people have an account on one of the social media platforms.
- Disadvantage: it's a bit more work than the other options and you need to be friends with the recipient with this account for your message to stand out in the inbox.